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An Ode to My Favorite T-Shirts

I’ve been known to talk a blue streak about the resourcefulness of plus size women when it comes to dressing their bodies. I’ve unpacked and picked apart the question “Did being fat make it easier for...

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Menswear, As Inspired by a 5-Year-Old

OK so here is how this is going to go down. I’m going to come in with the light-hearted stuff, the fawwwshun, the brand talk–then we’re going to get a little real, a littler vulnerable. This paragraph...

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Simply the Vest

One of my favorite things to do with femme friends is bond over fashion. The second is drank. So when my friendboss Caitlin suggested we get together to construct some patched denim over a bottle of...

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Officially a Disneyland Mom

When I was 4, I went to Disneyland for the first time. I would later learn that the trip with my grandparents, mom, and sister was a “sorry your parents are getting a divorce” trip. And then I didn’t...

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It’s a Girl

Her name is Diamond. A name I would have never picked. The name I did pick, Vincent, belonged to my great grandpa who told me through tears to stay in school because he wished he could have, instead of...

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Pinkplosion

My grandma died last week. She loved boots and I wanted to look as sharp as she always did so she bought me 2 pairs of glittery cowboy boots—one black, one pink. I still catch myself denying that pink...

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Yes, Plisse

Micropleats, or plisse if you’re nasty (and you know I am), are one of my fave looks. Another relic of random drugstore clothes that became en vogue a decade later (remember how much we made fun of...

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Semi-Consistent Chronicling

I’ve been journaling for over 20 years. Over half my life at this point. Not only has it been my primary tool for trying to understand the world around me, I have to admit it’s an investment. Much...

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Kind of a Big Deal

Silas is 21. We celebrated with Brazilian bbq one night and a drag show of 9 To 5 at Oasis the other night. Here’s the before of night one: and after: For night two, I went the Ferrero Rocher route:...

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Shoes Become Her

It’s been three months since I’ve been in an office, after having but a taste of it for the first time since 2020. It’s a cruel reality and I’m struggling with the loneliness it brings.  Here are...

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